Karim, thank u very much for ur replies and congrats

probably, living in Sweden is easier in some ways, but in 9 months, that we lived there, neither me, nor my husband got to love this country. I can tell u more - we faced such a stupidity in several authorities, that in the end we can't wait to move from there.
Besides, I hate swedish language, but i like a danish one, I'm learning it very quick because i have a huge wish.
When we lived in Malmo, I couldn't find any job at all, there was simply nothing. When we moved to DK, I found a good job almost in my specialization (i'm an economist) just in 1 month (when u apply under EU-rules, u can work while u r waiting, and i took that risk).
If not considering immigrant rules, I've not felt any racism towards myself here - all danes i've met r nice people and i hope it gonna remain the same. I can't say the same about Sweden, I think it's redicilous when u phone to some company/authority and they refuse to speak English to u, saying that u r in Sweden, u shall speak swedish! Stuff like that never happend to me in Dk

I could say much more, but the point is that of course it's disgusting that we need to suffer like that to get an opportunity to stay in our spouses' country, but if forget about it, I feel more comfortable in Dk as my husband is too of course; Sweden wasn't just our place.
And I also know, if we decided to live in my country of origin, getting the residence permission for my husband would be even worse, than in Dk.
If u live in Sweden and like it, I'm happy for u and wish u all the best there
