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I just want to ask about our situation....

My boyfriend and I had been together for almost two years and we want to tie the knot as soon as possible.

I just arrived here in Norway as an au pair but I dont have any personal number yet.

All I have was my passport and photo.

Is it possible for us to get married or not?

What are the requirements and what should i do? Thank you!!

Sincerely,
Cayenne

It is more readable to understand.

Is your boyfriend Norwegian? Where are you from, Philippines?

I'm not quite sure of the rules of Norway, and Norway is even outside the EU, but in Denmark, it is illegal to travel to an EU country as an au pair with the secret intent of getting married. Of course, no one knows that, so it's okay, but you need to be careful here. Do not tell your host family or friends about it, and do not flaunt your relationship and au pair job on Facebook if you want to be safe.

Here's some post I found just via google:

http://www.expat.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=575344

Again, I don't know the precise rules of Norway, and they are not in the EU. I would start looking on specifics about Norway.

Thank you for the reply!

My boyfriend is a dane.

It wasnt the original plan but something happened thats why we want to get married as soon as possible so we can be together.

Until now I am still looking for a new host family thats why I cannot go and have an appointment with the politi.

If your Danish boyfriend lives in Norway and you marry, you can use EU laws in Norway to obtain a residence permit. Ask your boyfriend to read the text on using EU law on this website under the menu heading "Rådgivning" on top of this page.

No he is living in Denmark.

Thats why I want to know if I can go to Denmark using my au pair visa and get married in Denmark. Or will it be a problem if I travel to Denmark?

Thank you

As long as your visa is valid, you can travel to any country in the Schengen zone.

I suppose you do know that you will not be able to continue to work as au-pair, once you marry?

And that your boyfriend and you fulfil the requirements according to Danish law for family reunification?

Otherwise you will put yourself in a place between a rock and a hard place by marrying.