Separation

[dindafeb]

Hi,

I have problem with my marriage. Our marriage only 2 years now and i have my daughter 15 years old live with us here. I will start VUC in august.
My marriage is not going very good right now. I am not working yet as difficult to find part time job as we living far away from the central
So, everytime i had interview they will asking about i have a car or not.
Even i am not working i am taking care myself and my daughter, so my husband help me a bit not totally. I thought i am very generous about the money and help as much as i can. But, he turned to control my money too. I was buy set of sofa and he even not help even 1kr. We had start big fight when he asked me to share to buy new matras. It's made me sad.. because i am not working and i am still independent for my needs. And bit by bit he shows his anger to me. Like complain how the house, about my sex (he says i am using him as a dildo) he said direct to me as using him to married him for staying in DK. It's really hurt me.. realy. Yes i said some anger word but still in polite way. And also once he hit me but he says don't meant it.

My question is.. it's possible if i still live here as my daughter will start efter skole in 10 klassen. I don't want divorce of course it's a shame for me and family. I had tried many times to talk to him to not give up and forgive each other. And he says he not love or care about me anymore. But, everyday i am trying to show how i love him.
For another information that he older than me around 17 years..
I give up my life to be with him. I was successful woman and single parent. Now i lost everything. . My business and money bit by bit gone to support my life in here.

I hope any solution

Regards
Dinda

[Pallethomsen]

Very sorry for you ,hope everything works out good for you .