Divorce(african woman married to a danish)
: 28.03.2016 10:13:19
Hi all,
I hope i can get some help from anyone here that has an idea of what can be done.
I am writting on behalf of my friend. She came here in 2014 on a tourist visum, this was after an agreement with the boyfriend she had been dating for 2 years. Their intention was if she liked Dk she was to stay back and get married, which they managed to do. During the waiting time for their case, it really took along time( almost 9 months before she got has resident permit) Well 5months into the marriage the man changed and become fx. very controlling, always shouting if he has to explain something or if he is mad on something that has gone wrong, he stressed( 24/7), cant allow or listen to her suggestions as in what he says is final and she has to do it, he has also been forcing her to find a job, on top of it he is a person who is just negative towards life. to cut that short.
The girl wants to finish danish lesson before she can find a job, since she doesnt want to mess up later with the future as its a gurantee you have to be good in danish for you to get a job. Her first temporary residence expires next year in april, thereby she will prolong it again( probably they will give 2 more years as the rules have now changed) She is depressed and feels this is going to ruin her life, she is scared to go back home since it will be hard for her to cope up with life again.
On the brighter side, she had known a very nice family(germany man and african woman) the woman was her friend but she has since passed on (rip), she had known them for sometime and still in contact with the man, well the man is willing to maybe have a future with her if she would like, but first she will have to file for a divorce.
My questions are
1) If she for example files fr divorce immediately she get her second temporary residence for 2yrs) if she get granted does it mean that she has to leave Dk immediately (as in will the 2yrs be cut short)
2.)Practically A divorce will last for lets say 1 yr, if she can get it that time it means she still has one year more, can she use that to for example go to germany and remarry?
3) During separation she will have to move to germany( exploiting the schengen rule of free visit if you have a danish residence permit) and maybe often visit Dk efter every 4 months lets say for a week and then go back, can that work)
4.) When moving the address is it a must she has to have the other address in dk ( her then current aDdress in Dk)
5.) When filing for divorce is it a strong reason to say she is divoricing because of disagreements ,can she involve a lawyer( they disagree 24/7 but the man has never been physical, meaning he has never layed a hand on her.
ps: Remember the divorce is coming only after 2 years of marriage, she is doing this to save her life it was never her intention is just that things took the wrong direction and she is very stressed.
thanks for your inputs in advance
I hope i can get some help from anyone here that has an idea of what can be done.
I am writting on behalf of my friend. She came here in 2014 on a tourist visum, this was after an agreement with the boyfriend she had been dating for 2 years. Their intention was if she liked Dk she was to stay back and get married, which they managed to do. During the waiting time for their case, it really took along time( almost 9 months before she got has resident permit) Well 5months into the marriage the man changed and become fx. very controlling, always shouting if he has to explain something or if he is mad on something that has gone wrong, he stressed( 24/7), cant allow or listen to her suggestions as in what he says is final and she has to do it, he has also been forcing her to find a job, on top of it he is a person who is just negative towards life. to cut that short.
The girl wants to finish danish lesson before she can find a job, since she doesnt want to mess up later with the future as its a gurantee you have to be good in danish for you to get a job. Her first temporary residence expires next year in april, thereby she will prolong it again( probably they will give 2 more years as the rules have now changed) She is depressed and feels this is going to ruin her life, she is scared to go back home since it will be hard for her to cope up with life again.
On the brighter side, she had known a very nice family(germany man and african woman) the woman was her friend but she has since passed on (rip), she had known them for sometime and still in contact with the man, well the man is willing to maybe have a future with her if she would like, but first she will have to file for a divorce.
My questions are
1) If she for example files fr divorce immediately she get her second temporary residence for 2yrs) if she get granted does it mean that she has to leave Dk immediately (as in will the 2yrs be cut short)
2.)Practically A divorce will last for lets say 1 yr, if she can get it that time it means she still has one year more, can she use that to for example go to germany and remarry?
3) During separation she will have to move to germany( exploiting the schengen rule of free visit if you have a danish residence permit) and maybe often visit Dk efter every 4 months lets say for a week and then go back, can that work)
4.) When moving the address is it a must she has to have the other address in dk ( her then current aDdress in Dk)
5.) When filing for divorce is it a strong reason to say she is divoricing because of disagreements ,can she involve a lawyer( they disagree 24/7 but the man has never been physical, meaning he has never layed a hand on her.
ps: Remember the divorce is coming only after 2 years of marriage, she is doing this to save her life it was never her intention is just that things took the wrong direction and she is very stressed.
thanks for your inputs in advance