Hey! Maybe I can help.
1. If you apply outside of Denmark, you need to stay outside of Denmark unless you’re just coming to visit. If you apply inside of Denmark (you don’t need a tourist visa to be in Denmark for 3 months since you’re a US citizen), they may give you a “temporary” visa to stay while they process your application but you won’t be allowed to work or go to school. It may be better for you to stay in America to earn money while you wait. That’s my plan! The maximum waiting time is 10 months. It may not take 10 months but that would be 10 months that you can use to earn money.
2. It is important he has a job and is self-supporting. This means he has a job and should have a savings account with a decent amount. If I was you, I wouldn’t apply if he has no job and his savings account is under about $5,000. That looks really bad. It’s easy to spend $5,000 and end up having $0 of savings. Especially with expensive housing in Denmark. $5,000 is already about 4 months of rent in some cities/areas. If the actual immigration people are telling you he needs a job, to be safe, I think he should just keep trying to find a job first + you two can try to build up a savings account. He also has to be able to post the collateral. Right now the collateral is DKK 55,375.27 but the new rules are suppose to make it DKK 100,000. If he has no job, no savings, and no money for collateral, you will be denied. After they approve your application, they will give him about 3 weeks to prove he has the collateral. If he can’t, you will be denied.
3. If he’s going to go look for a new place, make sure it’s not in a “ghetto” area and that it fits the space requirement. That would be really messed up if he got a new place and it had one or both of those problems. Under the new laws that are suppose to come, you guys would be rejected no matter what. Also, yes, make sure it’s in his name. Once you are approved and can legally live in Denmark, you guys can put it under both of your names.
If I were you...
4. No, do not quit your job. Especially if your fiancé doesn’t have a job. That would be very risky and not smart.
Two incomes are better than one.
5. You can’t legally move to Denmark because you need a family reunification visa, work permit, or student visa to live here legally. As a US citizen, you don’t need a visa to visit for 3 months but you HAVE to leave after the 3 months or you’ll be in Denmark illegally and could get deported. That would cause you a wholeeeeee bunch of problems.
6. Yes, wait for him to get a job first.
7. Yes, wait for him to find a place first that fits the requirements.
I’ll tell you what my plan is with my fiancé..
1. Make sure he and I both have jobs so we can save up money for the collateral (DKK 100,000)/add to our savings. There are two ways to get the collateral and we haven’t decided if we will try to do a Demand Guarentee Route where the bank will keep DKK 100,000 on standby or if we will try to earn the money ourselves and use the Escrow Account route. We also need to be able to pay for the application fee which is $950 - $1,000 USD.
2. Get married in Denmark.

3. If the new rules still allow it, I will take Danish A1 & Danish A2 so that we can try to reduce the collateral immediately (instead of after I’m allowed to legally move here). I’ll come to Denmark during my 3 month visit and take the tests (that costs about $900 USD total).
4. After I have successfully passed Danish A1 & A2 and have documentation of my success, we will apply for family reunification.
3. After we apply, I will wait in the US so that I can work and earn money for rent, food, etc for when I can legally move to Denmark. He will continue to work, pay rent, and save money also.
4. After I am completely approved, I’ll move to Denmark.
It’s possible to do all of this without a lawyer (that’s my plan) but that also means you can’t complicate the situation. Either way, it’s best not to complicate the situation. Prepare first. Your situation as a lot of red flags and sounds way too risky.
I hope I helped! If you have any questions, feel free to ask. I may not know the answers to all the questions but I’ll help you as much as I can and maybe other people will jump in and help too.
